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Growing up in a family considered ‘open-minded’ I learned that it meant being receptive to diverse cultures, backgrounds, and experiences. It meant embracing new ideas and perspectives and being open to positive change. It is about expanding your understanding of the world, its people, and its complexities. It is about intellectual curiosity and a willingness to learn.

However, I have come to realize that ‘open-minded’ can be easily misinterpreted. In my experience, many have mistakenly equated it with a lack of boundaries, assuming it grants them permission to overstep personal limits or take advantage. This misinterpretation can lead to harmful situations, where genuine openness is confused with vulnerability.

Last year, while I was living away from home an untraditional behaviour in my society especially for a female, I encountered a situation that highlighted this issue. My willingness to respect the local culture, without necessarily adopting all its norms, was misconstrued. A colleague assumed my ‘open-mindedness’ meant I would tolerate inappropriate behaviour, leading to an uncomfortable and disrespectful interaction. This experience underscored the difference between being open to new experiences and being open to exploitation.

Despite these challenges, I remain a firm believer in the value of open-mindedness. I've learned that it's crucial to balance openness with discernment. Being open to new experiences doesn't mean abandoning your personal values or tolerating disrespect. It means being selective about what you embrace and having the courage to set boundaries.

If you view open-mindedness negatively, I encourage you to reconsider. It's about embracing knowledge, understanding diverse perspectives, and fostering positive change. It's about being open to growth, not to being taken advantage of. Educate yourself, engage with different cultures, and learn to distinguish between genuine openness and harmful assumptions. And remember, it is always your right to set boundaries and say no to any behaviour that makes you uncomfortable.